yep - jess was like my best friend one day, then i was ill and had a day off, and she kept hanging out with rebecca and would hardfly even listen to me...
wow this is XACTLY wat happened to me....i wuz bffs with this grl since 2nd grade and now shes popular and acts lik im not there and lik we nevr evn met....it hurts soooooooooooooooooo much wen i hear her othr frends sharing jokes and going places that we 2 go to and laugh about.......how can u just ditch som1 lik zat??? we used to b inseparable.....nehow i luv ur title
o and my best advice is 4get bout them evn tho its lik supr hard and make new frends urself(dont ditch old 1s tho)...now i hav lots of frends who stick by me evn wen im a pain^_~
Last edited by greenLeAf863 at 4:34:36 PM EST on February 25, 2009.
This happens to me all the time... no joke. Which is why I confide with my friends online all the time. xD
I think I cried for weeks. We were really tight, yea? And he just up and left out of the blue; like, he just never talked to me anymore. He wouldn't say hi at all, either. I held it in for months before crying all those weeks. I kept crying for the longest time I've ever cried over anything. Probably a month I cried over it.
I tried clinging to the person. Like, when it was just starting off, and he'd still say hi to me. I hung around, I stuck with him, I stayed with him even though it was clear his friends didn't want me there. I only left when he said, "Djayy, I'm not your friend anymore." Yes, really, he said that, and I cried in school. People laughed at me. I cried more.
But I got over it. And look where I am now?
Did I turn up bad? XD
Don't answer that...
what did i do?
i bitched about ti for days and days until the friend that made bestfriends with someone else came and slapped me in the face. i ended up crying my ass off about that and finally, a week later, i said 'dude, i felt really left out man, cus i mean like, ur a good friend!!! can u ever forgive me, and can we go back to the way things were, wen we were tight?'
ahurhur, it worked.
u can totally skip the first couple of lines and go straight to the confrontation :D
HOPE THINGS GET BETTER, DUDE!!!!!
BAI NOW!
jdsgidhsgbkdhLIZZ OUT!
Hot damn, this kind of thing, eh? I feel sorry for ya...
My gf went through something like this. She just made best friends with one of her other good friends. But, she confronted her friend about it first. So, make sure your assumptions on the situation are correct before you make a move you'll regret.
Ask them. Tell them to be brutally honest and that you won't let it bother you if your friend is besties with someone else. Just, be sure to get an explanation first. Then, move from there.
The Stalker (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 02/24/09 | Reply
Okay, that was so wierd cuz i was just now listening to american idiot.
Anyway, i have been in a situation like that and i just let them go with that other person for a while and then after a while, i go back to them and we "make up" i guess i'll call it and then we are best buds again.
Or, i stick to them like glue until the other person is tired of seeing me also.
I've done both, but i dont know which one would work better.
Jack, mate, I HAVE been in a situation like this before and this is what I did:
I left them alone and went to see my other friends more often, and only talked to the person when nescesary. I did this for 2 days and the person came back to me because they had kinda like missed talking to me, I recon. ._. If you really are that annoyed, I WILL LET YOU CUT MY HAIR :O.
I'm not generally not that good at giving advice but seeing as I have been in a situation like this before, i thought I would say something.
LittleWiseOwl
Otaku Legend | Posted 02/26/09 | Reply
yep - jess was like my best friend one day, then i was ill and had a day off, and she kept hanging out with rebecca and would hardfly even listen to me...
bad memories![](http://www.theotaku.com/global/images/icons/female-blink.gif)
greenLeAfe
Himbo (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 02/25/09 | Reply
wow this is XACTLY wat happened to me....i wuz bffs with this grl since 2nd grade and now shes popular and acts lik im not there and lik we nevr evn met....it hurts soooooooooooooooooo much wen i hear her othr frends sharing jokes and going places that we 2 go to and laugh about.......how can u just ditch som1 lik zat??? we used to b inseparable.....nehow i luv ur title![](http://www.theotaku.com/global/images/icons/female-wink.gif)
o and my best advice is 4get bout them evn tho its lik supr hard and make new frends urself(dont ditch old 1s tho)...now i hav lots of frends who stick by me evn wen im a pain^_~
Last edited by greenLeAf863 at 4:34:36 PM EST on February 25, 2009.
djayysaurus
Otaku Legend | Posted 02/25/09 | Reply
This happens to me all the time... no joke. Which is why I confide with my friends online all the time. xD
I think I cried for weeks. We were really tight, yea? And he just up and left out of the blue; like, he just never talked to me anymore. He wouldn't say hi at all, either. I held it in for months before crying all those weeks. I kept crying for the longest time I've ever cried over anything. Probably a month I cried over it.
I tried clinging to the person. Like, when it was just starting off, and he'd still say hi to me. I hung around, I stuck with him, I stayed with him even though it was clear his friends didn't want me there. I only left when he said, "Djayy, I'm not your friend anymore." Yes, really, he said that, and I cried in school. People laughed at me. I cried more.
But I got over it. And look where I am now?
Did I turn up bad? XD
Don't answer that...
LOOL.
-Djayy-
FrescaBear
Otaku Legend | Posted 02/25/09 | Reply
I ignored them
Lol.
but that's just me.
anyways im not good at giving advice
so i hope things work out! :)
Lizinator03
Otaku Legend | Posted 02/24/09 | Reply
what did i do?
i bitched about ti for days and days until the friend that made bestfriends with someone else came and slapped me in the face. i ended up crying my ass off about that and finally, a week later, i said 'dude, i felt really left out man, cus i mean like, ur a good friend!!! can u ever forgive me, and can we go back to the way things were, wen we were tight?'
ahurhur, it worked.
u can totally skip the first couple of lines and go straight to the confrontation :D
HOPE THINGS GET BETTER, DUDE!!!!!
BAI NOW!
jdsgidhsgbkdhLIZZ OUT!
TheDarkAngel
Pathetic Diabetic (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 02/24/09 | Reply
Hot damn, this kind of thing, eh? I feel sorry for ya...
My gf went through something like this. She just made best friends with one of her other good friends. But, she confronted her friend about it first. So, make sure your assumptions on the situation are correct before you make a move you'll regret.
Ask them. Tell them to be brutally honest and that you won't let it bother you if your friend is besties with someone else. Just, be sure to get an explanation first. Then, move from there.
Good luck. (>_0)b
~Yosei~
And, then... I met you.
kittens 3
The Stalker (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 02/24/09 | Reply
Okay, that was so wierd cuz i was just now listening to american idiot.
Anyway, i have been in a situation like that and i just let them go with that other person for a while and then after a while, i go back to them and we "make up" i guess i'll call it and then we are best buds again.
Or, i stick to them like glue until the other person is tired of seeing me also.
I've done both, but i dont know which one would work better.
BadHairDay999
Grand Otaku | Posted 02/24/09 | Reply
Jack, mate, I HAVE been in a situation like this before and this is what I did:
I left them alone and went to see my other friends more often, and only talked to the person when nescesary. I did this for 2 days and the person came back to me because they had kinda like missed talking to me, I recon. ._. If you really are that annoyed, I WILL LET YOU CUT MY HAIR :O.
I'm not generally not that good at giving advice but seeing as I have been in a situation like this before, i thought I would say something.
Laura <3 <3