I do not believe your parents are completely right. Every set of people do fight. As my dad always says, "You can't have two people in a room together forever and expect them to never fight". Fights happen between even the closest of friends. It may hurt, but it doesn't always last forever because there are some people you CAN forgive. If they betray you, not so much. But if it's a simple fight between friends, of course you can forgive.
In your case, I understand how you feel. I've been betrayed and it's made me feel a little weary to make new friends, and I'm basically in this little 'bubble' I've created with me and only the people I KNOW I can trust inside it. I'm in a bubble in real life because one of my only real life friends hurt me and some of my friends, and I'm in a bubble online because of some recent events I've had to go through.
However, once or twice I have taken a step out of this bubble and I've been very thankful I have. I would have missed out on making some friends that make me very happy if I hadn't. Since taking a chance, I've made several friends that I'm very happy to have in my life, you being one of them.
It is hard to trust people. But having this feeling makes you less likely to trust everyone TOO easily and being hurt countless times. I have a friend who use to trust everyone and grow attached to them very soon and it's only led her to so much hurt. Now she knows to be more careful about who she trusts to prevent so much pain, and so do you.
Take these feelings, let them strengthen you, as well as educate you. Take a chance every now and then with people who seem nice and have similar interests as you do. Build your friendship up SLOWLY and don't let yourself become too close with them too fast.
It's hard, but I know you're strong, and you'll overcome this C:
Last edited by MikuBerry at 5:41:54 PM CDT on August 11, 2011.
No, I think that your parents haven't said to you completely about it. Thing is that life is hard.. These things do happen, I am myself aware of them.
Even when you think that everything is almost perfect, later it will grow to that...
You currently are carrying that feeling inside and you can't quite trust everyone. But, it will help you later. You can now better detect people, you can see how they really are.
And trust me, finding true friends, is possible. Friends that still will never leave you. As there are friends that are disgrace to be called that, there are also completely opposite of that.
You will see, just be more free and try to see it. And also if it again happens to come to these bad things, try to stop them on time you begin to feel that it might lead to that.
Morbid Dollie
Strawberry (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 08/11/11 | Reply
I do not believe your parents are completely right. Every set of people do fight. As my dad always says, "You can't have two people in a room together forever and expect them to never fight". Fights happen between even the closest of friends. It may hurt, but it doesn't always last forever because there are some people you CAN forgive. If they betray you, not so much. But if it's a simple fight between friends, of course you can forgive.
In your case, I understand how you feel. I've been betrayed and it's made me feel a little weary to make new friends, and I'm basically in this little 'bubble' I've created with me and only the people I KNOW I can trust inside it. I'm in a bubble in real life because one of my only real life friends hurt me and some of my friends, and I'm in a bubble online because of some recent events I've had to go through.
However, once or twice I have taken a step out of this bubble and I've been very thankful I have. I would have missed out on making some friends that make me very happy if I hadn't. Since taking a chance, I've made several friends that I'm very happy to have in my life, you being one of them.
It is hard to trust people. But having this feeling makes you less likely to trust everyone TOO easily and being hurt countless times. I have a friend who use to trust everyone and grow attached to them very soon and it's only led her to so much hurt. Now she knows to be more careful about who she trusts to prevent so much pain, and so do you.
Take these feelings, let them strengthen you, as well as educate you. Take a chance every now and then with people who seem nice and have similar interests as you do. Build your friendship up SLOWLY and don't let yourself become too close with them too fast.
It's hard, but I know you're strong, and you'll overcome this C:
Last edited by MikuBerry at 5:41:54 PM CDT on August 11, 2011.
-those with the biggest hearts hurt the most
LightFykki
Drachen Herz (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 08/11/11 | Reply
No, I think that your parents haven't said to you completely about it. Thing is that life is hard.. These things do happen, I am myself aware of them.
Even when you think that everything is almost perfect, later it will grow to that...
You currently are carrying that feeling inside and you can't quite trust everyone. But, it will help you later. You can now better detect people, you can see how they really are.
And trust me, finding true friends, is possible. Friends that still will never leave you. As there are friends that are disgrace to be called that, there are also completely opposite of that.
You will see, just be more free and try to see it. And also if it again happens to come to these bad things, try to stop them on time you begin to feel that it might lead to that.
I hope that you will feel better~