Well, studying the way someone acts and works is one of my stronger suits.(Although I do accidentally hurt people by playing with how they feel, its a blessing and a curse...but more of a curse)moving on...
WARNING:THIS ADVICE IS STRICT AND TO THE LETTER, IF THIS ADVICE CAUSES ANY DRAMATIC CHANGE IN A PERSON, I APOLOGIZE, BUT YOU HAVE TO CONSIDER YOUR PLAN OF ATTACK. THIS IS STRICTLY ADVICE,NOT A PLAN. SO LISTEN BUT DON'T LISTEN COMPLETELY
I am getting the sense that he is using you(CAREFULLY BROWSE THAT ONE)and to stay in that relationship, you must be 100% willing to commit, so think carefully and ALWAYS second-guess yourself, come up with backup plans so if something doesn't work, you'll bounce right back up.
2: Ask him KINDLY and DO NOT LOSE YOUR TEMPER(I recommend thinking of a song that keeps you in control, I have to purify or take your anger before you use it)to pull his weight of the relationship.REMEMBER YOU BOOTH HAVE TO COMMIT!
3: Test him periodically,(THIS IS YOU, NOT ME DOING THIS, YOUR PATH LEADS TO ACTIONS AND THERE IS NOOOO UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES OF TURNING BACK,SO BE SURE)and then you will feel better of the choices you make.
4: WARNING: I AM NOT GOING TO PATCH UP A RELATIONSHIP, IF SOMETHING TRAGIC HAPPENS TO THAT, IT IS OUT OF MY HANDS, YOU CHOOSE YOUR PATH!(Plus, relationships just make my skin crawl, no offense)Remember all of your past with him, and test yourself to see if you can trust him, and if he is trustworthy and responsible.
NOTE: I'm ONLY 13, SO I DO NOT HAVE COMPLETE INFLUENCE ON YOU, I'm JUST THROWING IN AN OPTION
FINAL VERDICT: SPEAK TO HIM KINDLY, AND THEN ACT IF THERE IS A PROBLEM AND WORK IT OUT, IF IT ENDS TO NO AVAIL, IT MUST BE FATE.
Decisions are 50/50 on the chances you take in the game of life, but the outcome is ALWAYS 100% inevitable.
Welll...the thing is, he moved to another state over the summer :l. So it's a lot more out of my control. He said he'd move back after he graduates...but if he doesn't go to school soon he will have to take senior year over again.
wow, well try and invigerate him to start actaully looking like hand am news paper and say " Hey babe (or whatever you call him) mabey you should look in here for a job? Its got great stuff, and i thought i saw an opening for game stop." -w- see what happens lol if he likes video games then try getting him a job somewhere that intests him
Well I kind of just started right now. Because he said "I need a job" and it's like "NO DERRR" so I told him "Then get one" and of course he says (like he always says) "Ive been trying" <--- yeah, trying my a$$. T_T. So I told him that it feels like he isn't as serious about life and future as I am and it's getting hard. No reply yet because this is seriously happening right now...
I have that same problem talking to my boyfriend about things. Well just try the next time he brings up having a baby, or if he asks you why youv been acting so "weird". Try not to bring it up out of the blue ^^
Haha I love this comment!!! For one, you're right! For two, my older friend said the very same thing, "he's not considering what you want".
I know I need to talk to him...and Im sure he knows something is up with me because of my "one-worded texts". The only real problem here is I need to know how to go about bringing it up to him and talking to him about it.
He doesent seem like a very good guy, i mean he wants to get you pregnent then leave you! and your only 16, he's not considering how you feel about this. If he doesn't get into the arm then i dought he'd be able to support you and a baby (that is if you had one). And he also needs to stop spending money on useless things, HE IS 17 FOR CHRISTS SAKE! He needs to grow up alittle. IF that is what he thinks now then he obveously wan't thinking about what you want tand just think about how that will work out in the future if your married, he'll just sit on his ass and do nothing then bitch and complain whenever he has to do something, I think he either needs to clean his act up or get his ass out. So i think you should talk things out first, and if he doesn't shape up then just dump his ass and drop him to the curb!
Kazamas-Keyblade
Otaku Legend | Posted 12/02/11 | Reply
Well, studying the way someone acts and works is one of my stronger suits.(Although I do accidentally hurt people by playing with how they feel, its a blessing and a curse...but more of a curse)moving on...
WARNING:THIS ADVICE IS STRICT AND TO THE LETTER, IF THIS ADVICE CAUSES ANY DRAMATIC CHANGE IN A PERSON, I APOLOGIZE, BUT YOU HAVE TO CONSIDER YOUR PLAN OF ATTACK. THIS IS STRICTLY ADVICE,NOT A PLAN. SO LISTEN BUT DON'T LISTEN COMPLETELY
I am getting the sense that he is using you(CAREFULLY BROWSE THAT ONE)and to stay in that relationship, you must be 100% willing to commit, so think carefully and ALWAYS second-guess yourself, come up with backup plans so if something doesn't work, you'll bounce right back up.
2: Ask him KINDLY and DO NOT LOSE YOUR TEMPER(I recommend thinking of a song that keeps you in control, I have to purify or take your anger before you use it)to pull his weight of the relationship.REMEMBER YOU BOOTH HAVE TO COMMIT!
3: Test him periodically,(THIS IS YOU, NOT ME DOING THIS, YOUR PATH LEADS TO ACTIONS AND THERE IS NOOOO UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES OF TURNING BACK,SO BE SURE)and then you will feel better of the choices you make.
4: WARNING: I AM NOT GOING TO PATCH UP A RELATIONSHIP, IF SOMETHING TRAGIC HAPPENS TO THAT, IT IS OUT OF MY HANDS, YOU CHOOSE YOUR PATH!(Plus, relationships just make my skin crawl, no offense)Remember all of your past with him, and test yourself to see if you can trust him, and if he is trustworthy and responsible.
NOTE: I'm ONLY 13, SO I DO NOT HAVE COMPLETE INFLUENCE ON YOU, I'm JUST THROWING IN AN OPTION
FINAL VERDICT: SPEAK TO HIM KINDLY, AND THEN ACT IF THERE IS A PROBLEM AND WORK IT OUT, IF IT ENDS TO NO AVAIL, IT MUST BE FATE.
Decisions are 50/50 on the chances you take in the game of life, but the outcome is ALWAYS 100% inevitable.
ilovetamaki
Grand Otaku | Posted 12/02/11 | Reply
@kalynnchan:
Welll...the thing is, he moved to another state over the summer :l. So it's a lot more out of my control. He said he'd move back after he graduates...but if he doesn't go to school soon he will have to take senior year over again.
kalynnchan
Otakuite+ | Posted 12/02/11 | Reply
@ilovetamaki:
wow, well try and invigerate him to start actaully looking like hand am news paper and say " Hey babe (or whatever you call him) mabey you should look in here for a job? Its got great stuff, and i thought i saw an opening for game stop." -w- see what happens lol if he likes video games then try getting him a job somewhere that intests him
ilovetamaki
Grand Otaku | Posted 12/01/11 | Reply
@kalynnchan:
Well I kind of just started right now. Because he said "I need a job" and it's like "NO DERRR" so I told him "Then get one" and of course he says (like he always says) "Ive been trying" <--- yeah, trying my a$$. T_T. So I told him that it feels like he isn't as serious about life and future as I am and it's getting hard. No reply yet because this is seriously happening right now...
kalynnchan
Otakuite+ | Posted 12/01/11 | Reply
@ilovetamaki:
I have that same problem talking to my boyfriend about things. Well just try the next time he brings up having a baby, or if he asks you why youv been acting so "weird". Try not to bring it up out of the blue ^^
ilovetamaki
Grand Otaku | Posted 11/30/11 | Reply
@kalynnchan:
Haha I love this comment!!! For one, you're right! For two, my older friend said the very same thing, "he's not considering what you want".
I know I need to talk to him...and Im sure he knows something is up with me because of my "one-worded texts". The only real problem here is I need to know how to go about bringing it up to him and talking to him about it.
kalynnchan
Otakuite+ | Posted 11/30/11 | Reply
He doesent seem like a very good guy, i mean he wants to get you pregnent then leave you! and your only 16, he's not considering how you feel about this. If he doesn't get into the arm then i dought he'd be able to support you and a baby (that is if you had one). And he also needs to stop spending money on useless things, HE IS 17 FOR CHRISTS SAKE! He needs to grow up alittle. IF that is what he thinks now then he obveously wan't thinking about what you want tand just think about how that will work out in the future if your married, he'll just sit on his ass and do nothing then bitch and complain whenever he has to do something, I think he either needs to clean his act up or get his ass out. So i think you should talk things out first, and if he doesn't shape up then just dump his ass and drop him to the curb!