I know that, that's why I let you know the situation. And I plan on it. I told her I needed to tell her something on Monday at school and that's what I am going to do.
In my defense, I didn't know what you two have been through...So I'm not trying to be the bad guy, here.
I wasn't saying that you should drop your friendship, but don't get being upset and having to let your anger out confused with being walked on...Even if my friend was pissed, I would'nt let him take it out on me.
I'd say "I'm not your enemy (insert name) is...so take it out on them, or we fight!"
I have no one BUT her...I mean there are other friends but no one has ever been there like she has. I have so much faith in her that she's just going through something and needs time to get whatever it is off her chest. I am not okay with just walking away...it's not fair. Unless it's extremely neccessary.
Im aware of the situation and what I need to do to fix it, BUT what people dont realize is...she and I have been best friends for YEARS AND YEARS on end. It's not that easy to just walk away. Yes, I am putting myself in this situation, but he was really really rude. And as far as I am concerned, he's no longer my boyfriend. He has a lot of issues and I am done with dealing with them. Especially after how he handled the situation. I am a big girl and I can take care of myself in situations like these (with my friend) if I get hurt then I get hurt and it's something I will have to deal with on my own. I told her the same thing when she told me to not take my boyfriend back before he and I got together again. She was infact right about him but he's not right about her. She's not acting like herself. The stuff she's been doing, it isn't like her at all. I just give up getting close to anyone anymore because it's a waste of time. Here I have my friend being rude to not only me but other people then I have a soon to be ex boyfriend who is messing up his life and being a huge jerk to me.
Seems like you've got alot on your list.(My way of saying"You've got alot to deal with") But, in my opinion , even if you might not want to, but being soft isn't going to help you alot. Especially at the crutial time of teenagerhood(You get the picture, right?)In my opinion, being social makes people vulnerable, but that's because no one likes me and I'm a paranoid freak who can't trust anyone.
I'm not saying you SHOULD act and do anything yet, but if you get offended,and don't do anything...then you're basically in a DEFENSE CHECK(Going to take alot of stuff from people that you don't want) and I do agree with your boyfriend...You can't always stay so mellow and unmoved...Eventually people will start walking all over you.
But other than that, that seems kinda cool what you did.
Kazamas-Keyblade
Otaku Legend | Posted 12/10/11 | Reply
@ilovetamaki:
Well, my advice never influenced your decision but I get it.
Actually at this rate you have checkmate in approximately 5 moves.
ilovetamaki
Grand Otaku | Posted 12/10/11 | Reply
@Kazamas-Keyblade:
I know that, that's why I let you know the situation. And I plan on it. I told her I needed to tell her something on Monday at school and that's what I am going to do.
Kazamas-Keyblade
Otaku Legend | Posted 12/10/11 | Reply
@ilovetamaki:
In my defense, I didn't know what you two have been through...So I'm not trying to be the bad guy, here.
I wasn't saying that you should drop your friendship, but don't get being upset and having to let your anger out confused with being walked on...Even if my friend was pissed, I would'nt let him take it out on me.
I'd say "I'm not your enemy (insert name) is...so take it out on them, or we fight!"
ilovetamaki
Grand Otaku | Posted 12/10/11 | Reply
@Kazamas-Keyblade:
I have no one BUT her...I mean there are other friends but no one has ever been there like she has. I have so much faith in her that she's just going through something and needs time to get whatever it is off her chest. I am not okay with just walking away...it's not fair. Unless it's extremely neccessary.
Kazamas-Keyblade
Otaku Legend | Posted 12/10/11 | Reply
@ilovetamaki:
I understand completely.
Not to influence you, but I have had to walk away from friendships like that many times before, so its not a big deal to me.
ilovetamaki
Grand Otaku | Posted 12/10/11 | Reply
@Kazamas-Keyblade:
Im aware of the situation and what I need to do to fix it, BUT what people dont realize is...she and I have been best friends for YEARS AND YEARS on end. It's not that easy to just walk away. Yes, I am putting myself in this situation, but he was really really rude. And as far as I am concerned, he's no longer my boyfriend. He has a lot of issues and I am done with dealing with them. Especially after how he handled the situation. I am a big girl and I can take care of myself in situations like these (with my friend) if I get hurt then I get hurt and it's something I will have to deal with on my own. I told her the same thing when she told me to not take my boyfriend back before he and I got together again. She was infact right about him but he's not right about her. She's not acting like herself. The stuff she's been doing, it isn't like her at all. I just give up getting close to anyone anymore because it's a waste of time. Here I have my friend being rude to not only me but other people then I have a soon to be ex boyfriend who is messing up his life and being a huge jerk to me.
Kazamas-Keyblade
Otaku Legend | Posted 12/10/11 | Reply
Seems like you've got alot on your list.(My way of saying"You've got alot to deal with") But, in my opinion , even if you might not want to, but being soft isn't going to help you alot. Especially at the crutial time of teenagerhood(You get the picture, right?)In my opinion, being social makes people vulnerable, but that's because no one likes me and I'm a paranoid freak who can't trust anyone.
I'm not saying you SHOULD act and do anything yet, but if you get offended,and don't do anything...then you're basically in a DEFENSE CHECK(Going to take alot of stuff from people that you don't want) and I do agree with your boyfriend...You can't always stay so mellow and unmoved...Eventually people will start walking all over you.
But other than that, that seems kinda cool what you did.