then shes not the person you met 8 years ago. it happens. ive known a girl for 6 years. when i met her she was innocent and nice and told me the truth. now she lies to me hurts me and then throws herself at me because she still likes me but cant admit it. but one the other hand ive known another girl for eleven years and shes exactly the same. still taller than me and she acts the same. so stuff like this. it happens.
well now, i didnt know that. so she sounds like an ass and now that i think about it i would be just like her if i didnt have friends like mine. she may not be able to talk about it. she'll have to go crazy before she is able to talk about it. oh well. at least you feel better right? im sorry to hear you lost a friend. i have friends like that. they arent the person you met and hit it off with a year or two years ago. ppl change. aint that some shit :/.
I get that, and believe me...I've thought about it so much. But if she really wanted to stay friends with me then she wouldn't have treated me so badly. It deffinately couldn't have been worse, but almost everyday she would have some mean or negative comment towards me. It was seriously like she was doing it just to make me feel bad and put me down, but that doesn't sound like who she is at all. But what do I know. She's changed so much. One day she loves country music, but then now she hates it? One day she HATES my friend Kaden, but now she likes him because he bought her a 50 cent soda? One night Savannah told me that she always asked if they could hang out with me (because I got ditched) and she always told her no. Savannah asked me about it, because she thought it was because I didn't like her. But that wasn't the case. Im just really hurt by what she has become because everything you said about yourself is exactly like her but she's stepped up to a whole new level. It's almost as if she hates herself so much that she has to hate me because I have a little more spunk than her, because Im a little more confident? She's always known this and we've always been our own person, but out of no where it's this sudden hatred for me. Everything would have been 10 times better if she would have just talked it out, but I guess that wasn't good enough for her.
it sounds like she dosent tell you everything. im not saying your wrong and who am i to dabble in a persons life that i dont really know like that? But it sounds like shes like me. my mom and dad get me most everything i want and i dont have a job. im also pretty pessimistic. the reason being is they dont listen to me (no one does) and dont let me voice my opinion. so if it comes a time where that needs to happen i shy away from it. and the "well at least" thing sounds like something she uses to keep her spirits up not to knock your down. when ppl like me see ppl like you so free and strong willed we feel sad and wish we were like you. her comparing herself to you was self confirmation. if to see her all down and shameful and down makes you feel good then keep doing it. but you might wanna think deeper into the situation. now i dont get 100 bucks after i babysit. i dont get anything. not even a thank you. and sometimes thats all you want is a thank you not money. and the whole savannah incident was jealousy. because she couldnt go with you and was to afraid to ask she got mad. im not saying its right. its not right at all but just understand her side too. Take it from me stress can mess you up real bad. it is a proverbial bitch. especially family problems. those are the worse because you have to go home to those. ive tried to off my self over family problems. so think about this. idk if those are the reasons but just think about it.
Domine Kuro
Otaku Legend | Posted 01/19/12 | Reply
@ilovetamaki:
then shes not the person you met 8 years ago. it happens. ive known a girl for 6 years. when i met her she was innocent and nice and told me the truth. now she lies to me hurts me and then throws herself at me because she still likes me but cant admit it. but one the other hand ive known another girl for eleven years and shes exactly the same. still taller than me and she acts the same. so stuff like this. it happens.
ilovetamaki
Grand Otaku | Posted 01/19/12 | Reply
@Domine Kuro:
Yeah..well it's okay. And I've known her for 8 years.
Domine Kuro
Otaku Legend | Posted 01/19/12 | Reply
@ilovetamaki:
well now, i didnt know that. so she sounds like an ass and now that i think about it i would be just like her if i didnt have friends like mine. she may not be able to talk about it. she'll have to go crazy before she is able to talk about it. oh well. at least you feel better right? im sorry to hear you lost a friend. i have friends like that. they arent the person you met and hit it off with a year or two years ago. ppl change. aint that some shit :/.
ilovetamaki
Grand Otaku | Posted 01/18/12 | Reply
@Domine Kuro:
I get that, and believe me...I've thought about it so much. But if she really wanted to stay friends with me then she wouldn't have treated me so badly. It deffinately couldn't have been worse, but almost everyday she would have some mean or negative comment towards me. It was seriously like she was doing it just to make me feel bad and put me down, but that doesn't sound like who she is at all. But what do I know. She's changed so much. One day she loves country music, but then now she hates it? One day she HATES my friend Kaden, but now she likes him because he bought her a 50 cent soda? One night Savannah told me that she always asked if they could hang out with me (because I got ditched) and she always told her no. Savannah asked me about it, because she thought it was because I didn't like her. But that wasn't the case. Im just really hurt by what she has become because everything you said about yourself is exactly like her but she's stepped up to a whole new level. It's almost as if she hates herself so much that she has to hate me because I have a little more spunk than her, because Im a little more confident? She's always known this and we've always been our own person, but out of no where it's this sudden hatred for me. Everything would have been 10 times better if she would have just talked it out, but I guess that wasn't good enough for her.
Domine Kuro
Otaku Legend | Posted 01/18/12 | Reply
it sounds like she dosent tell you everything. im not saying your wrong and who am i to dabble in a persons life that i dont really know like that? But it sounds like shes like me. my mom and dad get me most everything i want and i dont have a job. im also pretty pessimistic. the reason being is they dont listen to me (no one does) and dont let me voice my opinion. so if it comes a time where that needs to happen i shy away from it. and the "well at least" thing sounds like something she uses to keep her spirits up not to knock your down. when ppl like me see ppl like you so free and strong willed we feel sad and wish we were like you. her comparing herself to you was self confirmation. if to see her all down and shameful and down makes you feel good then keep doing it. but you might wanna think deeper into the situation. now i dont get 100 bucks after i babysit. i dont get anything. not even a thank you. and sometimes thats all you want is a thank you not money. and the whole savannah incident was jealousy. because she couldnt go with you and was to afraid to ask she got mad. im not saying its right. its not right at all but just understand her side too. Take it from me stress can mess you up real bad. it is a proverbial bitch. especially family problems. those are the worse because you have to go home to those. ive tried to off my self over family problems. so think about this. idk if those are the reasons but just think about it.