Ok, lets see, well Yoji has the right idea pretty much.
Giving him something that means a lot to you or switching your roles is a good idea, Bubby! You can try talking to him and seeing where the root of the issue lies as well and try fixing it. You can also just say that you Love him and that even though you two do those things that it is because you want to. That if you didnt love him you wouldnt be with him or being doing that sort of thing with him. In other words you wouldnt have let him take your innocence if you didnt love him! XP *is shot*
You could even try doing something extra special with him, bubby! If you two can make the time you could go on a picnic or to some place special together to show you care for each other. Just bee yourself and bee honest, Bubby! He will understand and know you care about him. Its all part of the relationship ups and downs. He will come around you will see. If you can find out the honest problem like maybe he just feels a bit insecure or controlling then reassure him that you are there for him and maybe switch the roles and you take the lead for a bit. Mayeb even do like Yoji said and just cuddle and take things slower during the other parts.
Just keep trying, bubby! Things will work out. You have all your friends here to help support you and we will be here for you! Love you, Bubby Yosei! *huggles*
Hero of Thyme (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 10/14/09 | Reply
The male mind confuses me greatly, so unfortunately I cannot help you :( Any issues with the female thought proccess, let me know ;) But it sounds to me that, if he feels guilty about it, then he obviously cares... right?
McDonalds fries have tasted weird for a while. I remember the first time I noticed was when my dad and I stopped at a reststop on our way to the airport. He told me it tasted like they switched to fish oil.... or it was the same oil they fried their fish in.... something like that o.e Anyway yeah, McDonalds fries are gross either way. The only time their fried were good, was when they used that one oil before the FDA cracked down on them for using an oil that caused cancer :I
Hmm...seems likenyou have a bit of a debocal (or however you spell it). Since I don't know that much about love, my theory may make no sense. Hopefully it will.
Do you have something precious to you? Like...say for me (this is false) my dead grandma's pearl earrings that I never EVER take off. Something like that. Give it to him! It shows that you care and understand and believe that his heart is in the right place. I don't know...
Or be the seme like Yoji said *is also shot*
Um well...just be thankful that your not running over kids. Hope it settles out Yosei-chan!
The Gluttony Fang (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 10/13/09 | Reply
You could always try being them seme~ *Is shot.*
Hmmmmmm... If he feels guilty about "using your body" then you could try been a little dominant (Though not necessarily sexual) the next time you two find yourselves sitting on a couch. Alternatively, you could try laying down and cuddling for a couple of hours. If he feels like he's giving instead of taking then he should snap out of it. 0.0 In theory, anyway.
prettykitty319
Otakuite | Posted 10/14/09 | Reply
Ok, lets see, well Yoji has the right idea pretty much.
Giving him something that means a lot to you or switching your roles is a good idea, Bubby! You can try talking to him and seeing where the root of the issue lies as well and try fixing it. You can also just say that you Love him and that even though you two do those things that it is because you want to. That if you didnt love him you wouldnt be with him or being doing that sort of thing with him. In other words you wouldnt have let him take your innocence if you didnt love him! XP *is shot*
You could even try doing something extra special with him, bubby! If you two can make the time you could go on a picnic or to some place special together to show you care for each other. Just bee yourself and bee honest, Bubby! He will understand and know you care about him. Its all part of the relationship ups and downs. He will come around you will see. If you can find out the honest problem like maybe he just feels a bit insecure or controlling then reassure him that you are there for him and maybe switch the roles and you take the lead for a bit. Mayeb even do like Yoji said and just cuddle and take things slower during the other parts.
Just keep trying, bubby! Things will work out. You have all your friends here to help support you and we will be here for you! Love you, Bubby Yosei!
*huggles*
~Meira~
i.luv.kiba
Hero of Thyme (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 10/14/09 | Reply
The male mind confuses me greatly, so unfortunately I cannot help you :( Any issues with the female thought proccess, let me know ;) But it sounds to me that, if he feels guilty about it, then he obviously cares... right?
McDonalds fries have tasted weird for a while. I remember the first time I noticed was when my dad and I stopped at a reststop on our way to the airport. He told me it tasted like they switched to fish oil.... or it was the same oil they fried their fish in.... something like that o.e Anyway yeah, McDonalds fries are gross either way. The only time their fried were good, was when they used that one oil before the FDA cracked down on them for using an oil that caused cancer :I
~Colleen
Enslaving the world, one JRocker at a time.
Keome
Otaku Legend | Posted 10/13/09 | Reply
Hmm...seems likenyou have a bit of a debocal (or however you spell it). Since I don't know that much about love, my theory may make no sense. Hopefully it will.
Do you have something precious to you? Like...say for me (this is false) my dead grandma's pearl earrings that I never EVER take off. Something like that. Give it to him! It shows that you care and understand and believe that his heart is in the right place. I don't know...
Or be the seme like Yoji said *is also shot*
Um well...just be thankful that your not running over kids. Hope it settles out Yosei-chan!
Keome-chan
My thoughts create my world
Mr Sword
The Gluttony Fang (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 10/13/09 | Reply
You could always try being them seme~ *Is shot.*
Hmmmmmm... If he feels guilty about "using your body" then you could try been a little dominant (Though not necessarily sexual) the next time you two find yourselves sitting on a couch. Alternatively, you could try laying down and cuddling for a couple of hours. If he feels like he's giving instead of taking then he should snap out of it. 0.0 In theory, anyway.
Yoji~