Awwh thank you!! Haha, it actually happened to me one time, when
I told my close friend something really important and she gossiped to it to just about everyone I knew which really upset me. But my mom and other friends aren't like that so for that I am thankful. :)
That's so great to hear, Janet-chan! Rarely do I find that opening up to someone has ever bitten me back. I'm glad you were able to find some consolation in talking with your mom. Our parents ought to be one of the first peoples we talk to when going through stuff. *huggles*
Haha, I know exactly how you feel. Even though saying some of these things to my parents, I just had a great time yesterday because something made me realllllllllllly upset and I was hiding it till I told my mom, and she just sat there and accepted everything, and I couldn't ask for more. Even though I am a bit upset about that, my Korean Dramas have made me feel much better, and also talking to my mom. So now that smile I had put on finally turned into a real smile. :)
While I'm all for thinking and being positive even when I'm going through some tough times, there's a point when I can't "hide" it anymore. For me, my tendency is to try to deal with issues on my own. While there is some practicality and some personal maturity or responsibility there, sometimes it takes "burdening" others to help yourself. But when you open up to a true friend or family member, they won't see that as a burden even though we think that way. Sometimes being quiet and trying to put a smile on is actually a form of pride, which is a weakness. If we can't be humble enough to open up about something we're going through, we won't grow and move on as we could.
Good post, Janet! Hope you've been doing well. ^_^
JanetChan
Otaku Legend | Posted 10/22/13 | Reply
@twilight samurai:
Haha I knowwww, but it's okay I'm used to it I guess. I can't let that person let me down, you know? >_<
twilight samurai
Redeemed (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 10/21/13 | Reply
@JanetChan:
Well that's just a butthead of a friend... Sorry to hear that. Sometimes that'll happen. :(
JanetChan
Otaku Legend | Posted 10/21/13 | Reply
@twilight samurai:
Awwh thank you!! Haha, it actually happened to me one time, when
I told my close friend something really important and she gossiped to it to just about everyone I knew which really upset me. But my mom and other friends aren't like that so for that I am thankful. :)
*SUPAH HUGGLES*
twilight samurai
Redeemed (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 10/21/13 | Reply
@JanetChan:
That's so great to hear, Janet-chan! Rarely do I find that opening up to someone has ever bitten me back. I'm glad you were able to find some consolation in talking with your mom. Our parents ought to be one of the first peoples we talk to when going through stuff. *huggles*
JanetChan
Otaku Legend | Posted 10/19/13 | Reply
@twilight samurai:
Ahhh, words of wisdom right here. ♥
Haha, I know exactly how you feel. Even though saying some of these things to my parents, I just had a great time yesterday because something made me realllllllllllly upset and I was hiding it till I told my mom, and she just sat there and accepted everything, and I couldn't ask for more. Even though I am a bit upset about that, my Korean Dramas have made me feel much better, and also talking to my mom. So now that smile I had put on finally turned into a real smile. :)
Thank you so much beautiful ♥
twilight samurai
Redeemed (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 10/18/13 | Reply
While I'm all for thinking and being positive even when I'm going through some tough times, there's a point when I can't "hide" it anymore. For me, my tendency is to try to deal with issues on my own. While there is some practicality and some personal maturity or responsibility there, sometimes it takes "burdening" others to help yourself. But when you open up to a true friend or family member, they won't see that as a burden even though we think that way. Sometimes being quiet and trying to put a smile on is actually a form of pride, which is a weakness. If we can't be humble enough to open up about something we're going through, we won't grow and move on as we could.
Good post, Janet! Hope you've been doing well. ^_^
JanetChan
Otaku Legend | Posted 10/17/13 | Reply
@SweeTea:
Thank you so much love, you inspire me to keep posting!! :)
JanetChan
Otaku Legend | Posted 10/17/13 | Reply
@aurora witch:
Awwwh, dear your comments mean so much, they keep making me want to post more! Thank you so much! ♥
aurora witch
Endless Witch (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 10/17/13 | Reply
So different and beautiful world.. Your articles are so meaningful
SweeTea
Grand Otaku | Posted 10/16/13 | Reply
This is such a beautiful world, I love it. <3