I agree with the others. Tomorrow will be better and keep saying that 'cause at one point, a tomorrow will be better. So maybe tell her something positive like that? At a time like this, she needs people to send her good vibes, people who will help her see the light. Stay strong!
Being depressed is really hard on the person. The main cause of depression is the feeling of hopelessness and/or helplessness. This being said, these people feel like they are alone and isolated. Even though they have families and friends they personally believe that no one understands how they feel.
I think you should talk with your mentor. I don't know how long she had this depression, but depending on the amount, she might need pharmaceutical help (i.e. antidepressants). I know you may feel hurt about this, but you have to be strong though this. If she truly is depressed she will say things loosely without consideration of others. But I think if you stick with her, it will slowly open her eyes to you and gain your trust. Depression is a very terrible and misunderstood medical condition that often requires medical expertise. Giving hope and support is more than what she could ask for :)
I hope it works out.
Take cares~~
King of LLamas (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 03/21/13 | Reply
I am sorry that your friend isn't doing so well :(
But the only thing I can tell you is maybe talk to the girl or your mentor about it. Tell the girl how you felt when she said that. Unfortunately I've had the same problem before a long time ago, and talking to them helps a lot. Also, maybe your mentor can give you advice about the situation.
I hope I was of some help to you~ And I do really hope everything gets better~
Yeah I see where that can hurt. I'm so sorry. The best advice I can give you is talk to this girl. Ask her, "you know I've been your friend for along time and I've always been there for you. How can you say you have no friends? Aren't I your friend?" well something like that. I can relate to your situation. I'm sorry she said that. I hope my advice helps. if you need to talk,please pm me. I love you friend and care about you. You're a good friend. Anybody would be lucky to have an epic friend like you. I know I am.
~Judai
Allie Elric
Otaku Legend | Posted 03/21/13 | Reply
I agree with the others. Tomorrow will be better and keep saying that 'cause at one point, a tomorrow will be better. So maybe tell her something positive like that? At a time like this, she needs people to send her good vibes, people who will help her see the light. Stay strong!
ItachiSasuke
Administrator | Posted 03/21/13 | Reply
Being depressed is really hard on the person. The main cause of depression is the feeling of hopelessness and/or helplessness. This being said, these people feel like they are alone and isolated. Even though they have families and friends they personally believe that no one understands how they feel.
I think you should talk with your mentor. I don't know how long she had this depression, but depending on the amount, she might need pharmaceutical help (i.e. antidepressants). I know you may feel hurt about this, but you have to be strong though this. If she truly is depressed she will say things loosely without consideration of others. But I think if you stick with her, it will slowly open her eyes to you and gain your trust. Depression is a very terrible and misunderstood medical condition that often requires medical expertise. Giving hope and support is more than what she could ask for :)
I hope it works out.
Take cares~~
Find a reason to smile
21Emmz12
King of LLamas (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 03/21/13 | Reply
I am sorry that your friend isn't doing so well :(
But the only thing I can tell you is maybe talk to the girl or your mentor about it. Tell the girl how you felt when she said that. Unfortunately I've had the same problem before a long time ago, and talking to them helps a lot. Also, maybe your mentor can give you advice about the situation.
I hope I was of some help to you~ And I do really hope everything gets better~
C yaz!!
Alwayz BELIEVE
Rainbow Dragon
☠Eastsider✰Pirate☠ (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 03/21/13 | Reply
Yeah I see where that can hurt. I'm so sorry. The best advice I can give you is talk to this girl. Ask her, "you know I've been your friend for along time and I've always been there for you. How can you say you have no friends? Aren't I your friend?" well something like that. I can relate to your situation. I'm sorry she said that. I hope my advice helps. if you need to talk,please pm me. I love you friend and care about you. You're a good friend. Anybody would be lucky to have an epic friend like you. I know I am.
~Judai