Welcome dears to my world!

This world is designed for asking those little annoying questions you might have wondered throughout the years. What type of questions you ask? Well, those ones that might have went like this: "What can I do to become more attractive?", "How can I tell if he/she likes me?", "How do I not mess up during a date?", "Why do I feel like I care about nothing?" or anything along those lines. :) I'm here to post stuff that intertwines with the world theme and offer my views and best opinion to these matters, so ask away! ALSO you can leave me a PM and I'll post the questions anonymously.

Note: I am not a professional, so this is just advice for those who need it.

PONDERIN' Away

Alright! Thanks to those who already PM'ed me Q's! I didn't think I'd get any {so soon}. I'll do my best to answer them, but remember they're just my opinions based on my experience right now. ;)

• [1] Can the saying, "love at first sight" be real?
  Honey, anythin' can be real if you believe. People do fall in love with the so called 'love at first sight' ordeal. However, sometimes you just needa ask yourself, is that mutual. Kay, just think on it a bit. If you're fallin' for this super 'hot' guy that's really buff...WHAT are you really fallin' for? Appearance really is only a fraction of the whole relationship. So in answer to this question, I say that 'love at first sight', can be real, but if you want it to be mutual, this is a lot of other work and effort you need to put into it. ;)

• [2] Can you fall in love with someone you met on the internet?
  Yes you can. I've seen friends who have dated online, or who have really good friends (of the opposite sex) from online. It's not impossible to have both, you just have to be [1] very careful, [2] determined, [3] you. So let me explain maself a bit. Everyone I know knows there are creepers out there. I was just readin' a post about someone creepin' an Otaku on her tumblr site. Seriously, be careful, but after you get to know them, your conversations can develop into what you'd discuss with a friend in RL. Addin' with that, you have to be determined. You cannot want to fall in love with someone and not be. Fallin' in love is not some spell that happens to people, it takes time and effort. THINK. It's a person you want to spend the rest of your life with [or not], so make it count ;) Lastly, be yourself. OMEHGAWD, I can't even begin to tell you guys how many people act differently online than they do in RL. If you want people to like you for being someone you're not, then you're only foolin' yourself gurl [or guy if you're reading this 8D].
  I should mention, after gettin' to know them really well, try doin' stuff like videochat and see how well that progresses. If you both think this might be going somewhere, the next thing you have to do is MEET. And that, is up to you.

• [3] How can I get a guy I like to fall for me, even if I know he has a GF.
  First of all, if you like this guy, you will accept his decision to like someone else. Next, if he liked you back (AKA MUTUAL RELATIONSHIP) he won't be dating another gurl, unless he's a cheater, then you want nothing to do with him honey. . You relationship should be mutual and you shouldn't have to tear another couple apart to achieve your happiness. If he's right for you, then he'll do the tearin' apartin' AND time and patience will help determine that!

That's it for Q's right now! Thank y'all for readin', if you read this far. Leave a comment of what y'all think about it, or if you have Q's shoot be a PM. I love hearin' from ya. Especially my #1 fan. ;) LATERZ